Bored chats happen to every couple. One minute you are sending emojis, the next you both stare at your screens with nothing to say. A simple, well-timed question can pull the talk back to life and make her smile.
Below you will find easy, everyday prompts you can paste right into WhatsApp. Each one is short, clear, and meant to spark a bit of fun or a quick laugh.
Pick a question, hit send, and watch the conversation start rolling again.
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Things to ask Her when She’s Bored
When she drops the “I’m bored” text, see it as a chance to add a spark, not a chore. A quick, playful question can flip her mood and pull you both into a brighter chat. Keep it light, keep it real, and let the talk flow where it wants to go.
1. “Wanna call or video chat for a bit?”
When she’s bored, sometimes just hearing your voice or seeing your face is enough to brighten her mood.
2. “Wanna play a little game on the phone? Like 20 questions or truth or dare?”
A fun way to pass the time and have a few laughs, even if you’re not together.
3. “Did you see anything funny online today?”
Gets her talking and gives you both something to laugh about or share.
4. “Should we scroll for some dumb memes together?”
Normal, casual. Who doesn’t love wasting a little time sending memes back and forth?
5. “What are you in the mood for? Wanna watch something, chat, or just hang?”
Puts the ball in her court and lets her choose what feels good in the moment.
6. “What are you doing right now? Want some company?”
Just a casual way to check in and offer to keep her company.
7. “Wanna scroll TikTok together and send dumb videos?”
Super relatable, something couples actually do when they’re bored.
8. “Should I come over later so we can chill?”
Simple and to the point. Sometimes that’s exactly what she wants to hear.
9. “Want me to tell you something random about my day?”
Opens the door to an easy, natural conversation.
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10. “Feel like starting a new show or movie together?”
A very normal way to suggest doing something low-effort but fun.
Questions You Can Both Ask Each Other Over Text
Good chats go both ways. Swap these easy check-ins to keep the day-to-day stories flowing. They’re simple, personal, and help you both feel heard without any fuss.
1. “What did you eat today?”
Simple and super normal, and always sparks more talk about food, cravings, or random moments in the day.
2. “How’s your day going so far?”
The easiest check-in question that shows you care and opens the door for her to share.
3. “Did anything funny or weird happen today?”
Gets her talking and helps you both share little daily moments.
4. “What are you watching or listening to right now?”
Perfect for starting a chat about music, shows, or anything new to try together.
5. “What time are you thinking of going to bed tonight?”
Casual but personal — lets you both talk about plans for the rest of the night.
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6. “What’s one thing you’d love to eat this weekend?”
Food talk is always easy, fun, and can even help you make future plans.
7. “Are you more tired or more bored today?”
A fun way to check in on her mood without just saying “How are you?”
8. “Did you have any weird dreams last night?”
Great convo starter and always leads to fun or silly stories.
9. “What’s the first thing you wanna do when we see each other next?”
Keeps things playful and helps build excitement.
10. “What’s one thing you’d love for us to do together soon?”
Lets you both share ideas and make future plans as a couple.
11. “Did you sleep well last night?”
Simple, natural, and caring. An easy way to start a chat in the morning.
12. “What’s something you’re looking forward to this week?”
Helps shift the convo to something positive and gives her something nice to think about.
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13. “How’s the weather over there today?”
Yeah, it’s basic, but super normal when you’re texting — especially if you’re not in the same place.
14. “What’s one thing you’d love me to do for you this week?”
Playful and thoughtful, and lets her tell you what would make her happy.
15. “Have you seen anything online today that made you laugh?”
Easy way to share a moment, and it usually leads to trading memes or funny links.
16. “If you could nap right now, would you?”
Light, casual, and usually turns into a fun little chat about how tired you both are.
17. “Should we plan a lazy day soon? Just us, no plans.”
A great way to suggest quality time together without making it a big deal.
Funny and Flirty Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend Over Text
Want to dial up the spark? Drop one of these cheeky lines. They’re playful enough to make her grin and just spicy enough to keep the mood flirty.
1. “If I kidnapped you right now for a surprise date, where would you hope we’d end up?”
A playful way to flirt and see what kind of mood she’s in.
2. “On a scale of 1 to ‘get over here now’, how much do you miss me?”
Cheeky and flirty, and always gets a fun reply.
3. “If you could only kiss me or hug me today, which would you pick?”
Simple, flirty, and starts some cute teasing.
4. “What’s one thing you’d want me to whisper in your ear right now?”
A little spicier, but still fun and leaves room for her to tease you back.
5. “Would you survive a tickle attack from me right now?”
Light and playful, and makes her imagine being close to you.
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6. “If I showed up at your door right now, would you let me in… or make me work for it?”
A good mix of cheeky and flirty, gets her in a fun mood.
7. “What do you think would happen if we were on the couch together right now?”
Leaves plenty of space for her imagination to run a little wild.
8. “What’s something you’ve been wanting to do with me but haven’t told me yet?”
Flirty and playful, and invites her to open up or tease you.
9. “If we were stuck at home all weekend, what kind of trouble do you think we’d get into?”
Sets the tone for some fun back and forth.
10. “How would you distract me right now if I was trying to work?”
Playful and a little mischievous, always leads to a fun reply.
Keep the Chat Alive
A quiet chat can feel awkward, yet it is also your chance to bring back some fun. Grab any question from the list, drop it into WhatsApp, and watch how quickly the mood shifts.
Little prompts show you care, spark laughs, and turn downtime into a moment you both enjoy. Which question are you going to try first?
